Love at first sight refers to when a man and a woman meet for the first time, one of them has a crush on the other, is very much in love with each other, is willing to make friends with each other or fall in love with each other. Through the ages, love at first sight examples and stories are many, some ending is good, two people know each other love, Jack shall have Jill; While some relationships are just a flash in the pan. As the relationship progresses, they finally feel that the two people are not suitable and have to break up. I have seen such an ancient story. It is about a scholar who met a young girl on the way out and was fascinated by her beauty, especially her eyes, which were so beautiful that he thought she was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, so he came forward to talk to her. It was love at first sight. They got to know each other over and over again and were soon married. After marriage, they were very fond of each other. The scholar planned to go to the capital for the examination and stayed at home to study. However, he was so distraught to look at his wife’s beautiful eyes that he did not want to study every day. This is a poignant story of love at first sight, but the ending is cruel.
In fact, love at first sight only shows that between the opposite sex, one is attracted by the appearance and beauty of the other side, so as to produce a kind of love and secret love in the heart, and want to deeply communicate with each other’s psychological state. This kind of psychology is understandable, the love of beauty, everyone has. Men love the heart of beauty, is also very normal, beyond reproach. However, people can not only look at a person’s appearance, appearance. If we analyze whether love at first sight is good or not, we should look at it dialectically, that is to say, there are two sides to a thing. As the saying goes: it is easy to draw a tiger but hard to draw a bone. Although some people are good-looking, but the quality may be very poor, or uncivilized behavior, a speech often say dirty words, or do not know how to respect people, can not be kind to others, selfish, or money worship, hedonism serious, or low moral level, at the expense of others and so on, such a person who is not willing to interact with its, even if it is good-looking.
Therefore, make friends with people, love or, in addition to look at the appearance, more important is to look at the inner things, this is wise, otherwise may make friends carelessly, misguided, then regret is too late! In short, you can take love at first sight as the beginning of a love, with the deepening of the two people, understand each other deeply, feel each other good-looking, very temperament, but also in the manner of life, temperament and other aspects are very good, both sides of the temper is very congenial, also have a common language, feelings continue to improve, until love to marriage, this is a happy ending.
If after a period of contact, although the other side is very good-looking, but in character, temper, behavior style, character and other aspects, is not what they look forward to, is not their dream lover, it can only cut the mess, timely end the contact, in order to avoid wasting too much energy and feelings. Therefore, love at first sight is only attracted by the beauty of each other’s appearance, can be used as a prelude to the first acquaintance and then communication, whether and each other become lovers, walk into the palace of marriage, or to see the future in-depth communication, to see the other side’s character, temper, character, “three views” and other aspects, this is the most important thing.