People often ask if there are any tricks or unloved trivia that can make a relationship as easy as an open one. In fact, there is, if you master the following tips, will be a great help to you.
First, at a party, if there is someone you like in the crowd, how can you tell if they like you back in 10 seconds? Remember the phenomenon that when a group of people start laughing, everyone looks at their crush. If you want the answer, just follow their gaze.
So, if you catch your partner looking back at you several times while everyone else is laughing, congratulations, your crush has a crush on you.
Second, if you want to date someone you don’t know very well, don’t ask them if they are available. If you just ask ta if there is no time, then in front of ta is the judgment question, there is always half the probability will be rejected, and if you are not very familiar, but the other side does not know what you want to do, out of the exclusion of the unknown, ta probability will choose not to be available.
So you have to put the choice in front of them, let them feel like they are making a decision, for example, would you like to go to drink milk tea or go to the movies tomorrow? No matter what they choose, you can get what you want by asking them out. This will also reduce the cost of judgment for unknown situations and make them willing to be asked out by you.
Third, when you want to do something for them, just tell them without asking. For example, it’s raining hard outside. Do you want me to pick you up? Like what? Are you sick? Do you need to go to the hospital? This kind of thing doesn’t need to ask, you ask means you don’t want to do it.
In many cases, if you really want to do something, you will definitely say, it’s raining so hard, I’ll pick you up. You are ill. I will send you to see a doctor at once. You’re asking because you’re expecting the other person to tell you no, so if you really want to do it, tell the other person and do it firmly, and don’t be phony when you don’t want to do it.
Fourth, ask when you want it. Whether you are a boy or a girl, you have to express your emotional, material and spiritual needs, don’t wait for the other person to actively understand.
Relationship no matter how good, feelings no matter how in place, the other person is not your stomach worm, can not always know what you want in mind, they always don’t know what you want.
A lot of people think, if they really understand me, they will know what I want. And if they don’t know, will you be sad and disappointed? Don’t be like this, you just tell them directly, reduce the cost of understanding. Don’t hide, then you can spend more time on more meaningful things, such as reading books, such as exercise, isn’t it more meaningful.