Some men in the date, always nervous can not themselves, eyes do not know where to look, hands do not know where to put, say anything is very cold.
A man is so concerned with his own performance that he naturally ignores a woman’s real needs.
To make a date comfortable and easy for both of you, it’s just a matter of mastering a few techniques beforehand and practicing them regularly.
Why do you say that?
Because women in daily life contact with people, far more emotional than men.
As a result, women are more likely to see what a man does and what he says is not the most important thing.
If you want to upgrade your relationship and get a woman excited during a date, don’t ignore these moves.
01 Take the initiative to bow and admit mistakes
Generally speaking, who is willing to give up their dignity, give up their so-called pride, take the initiative to apologize to others?
It’s more that this man loves you enough not to want to lose you.
So if you have a conflict in your relationship and you can take the initiative to admit that you are wrong, women will think that you are so easy to “surrender” because you are too concerned about yourself. A man like that deserves her life.
However, in the process of dealing with conflict, many men are still unwilling to apologize to each other when they have done something wrong, and they are stubborn to the end.
What women fear most is not who is right and who is wrong, but that men have male chauvinism and can’t be treated equally when making mistakes. A woman makes a mistake, he holds on; When he made a mistake, he shot himself in the face.
A man who believes in and practices male chauvinism thinks he is not at fault. Even if they are wrong, they will argue and prove themselves right. You put your own responsibilities on women.
In love, the attitude of admitting mistakes has become one of the criteria for women to screen men, so she is looking at whether you have the courage to admit mistakes.
If you know you’ve made a mistake and will bow down and apologize in front of her, then women will think you know right from wrong.
02 Hug her a lot
They say women are the most difficult animals in the world to understand. Her heart is as elusive as a needle in the sea.
Sometimes, a woman wants you to hug her more, but won’t say so, leading to little hints that you don’t know what you’re talking about.
This situation is very common in reality, and to know what signals she is sending, one must first understand the woman.
Women are emotional, sensitive, and tangled. When in love, especially lack of security.
The longer the relationship goes on, the more women feel that it is not a legitimate relationship and that they cannot get the blessing of friends and family.
Therefore, every time a woman goes on a date with you, she has a vague anxiety that the two of them will walk away. To ease a woman’s worries, hugging her regularly will calm her mind.
Each time you go on a date with her, you can hug her for a long time at once, or hold her frequently.
Even with this single hug, a woman will feel your care and love, calming her restless mind.
03 Hold her hand tightly
A woman in love fears a man’s coldness. If a man is flat, doesn’t talk much, isn’t active, and doesn’t follow her around, a woman will feel left out.
To that end, it’s important to dispel the illusion that you’re cold. At this time, tightly holding her hand is the most direct way, two people do not say much, but also cherish each other.
You can hold hands with her in public, or you can lead her gracefully in front of friends and family.
Holding her hand firmly shows your unwavering belief in your love.
Although you don’t make a big show of your love, it’s easy to see that you’re a loving couple.
Holding her hand often makes her feel comfortable because it reminds her of holding your hand and growing old together in the future.
This kind of romance, is her ideal of love.